卦辞
小事吉。
In small matters, good fortune.
同中有异,宜求同存异,勿强合。
大象传
上火下泽,睽;君子以同而异。
Above, fire; below, the lake. The noble one amid all fellowship retains his individuality.
此卦于十事
- 事业WORK
- 同中有异,宜求同存异。君子以同而异,可以合作而不必相同,强求一致反而裂得更快。
- 感情LOVE
- 有误会与疏离。见豕负涂载鬼一车,你看到的对方可能是自己想像出来的版本。
- 财运MONEY
- 有分歧的账目或立场。小事吉,此时只处理小的、具体的,别碰大结构。
- 健康HEALTH
- 睽有乖离之象,身心不同步。想的和身体能承受的不一致,是这里的主题。
- 学业STUDY
- 方法与你不合。丧马勿逐自复,不用硬追,换个角度它自己会回来。
- 考试EXAM
- 考题与你预期的方向不同。睽卦同而异:出题者的思路与你的准备有落差,考前多做不同年份、不同出题者的题目,拉近这段距离。
- 人际PEOPLE
- 最需要注意的类别。遇主于巷无咎,在非正式的场合把话讲开,比正式会谈有效。
- 抉择CHOICE
- 小事可决,大事宜缓。分歧未消时做的大决定容易翻案。
- 出行TRAVEL
- 可行但易生变数。往遇雨则吉,中途的阻碍反而是转机。
- 寻失物LOST
- 记忆与实际不符。你以为放在甲处,其实在乙处;别坚持自己的印象。
六爻爻辞
悔亡,丧马勿逐,自复。见恶人,无咎。
Remorse disappears. If you lose your horse, do not run after it; it will come back of its own accord. When you see evil people, guard yourself against mistakes.
丧马勿逐,自复。马丢了别追,会自己回来。见恶人无咎:此爻连讨厌的人也要见,避开反而生事。
遇主于巷,无咎。
One meets his lord in a narrow street. No blame.
遇主于巷,无咎。在巷子里遇到了。此爻的智慧是:正式管道走不通时,非正式的场合反而能谈。
见舆曳,其牛掣,其人天且劓,无初有终。
One sees the wagon dragged back, the oxen halted, a man's hair and nose cut off. Not a good beginning, but a good end.
见舆曳,其牛掣。车被拖住,牛被牵制,人还受了刑。此爻无初有终:开头极坏,结局尚可。
睽孤,遇元夫,交孚,厉无咎。
Isolated through opposition, one meets a like-minded man with whom one can associate in good faith. Despite the danger, no blame.
睽孤,遇元夫。孤立中遇到同道。交孚厉无咎:此爻在危险里建立了真正的信任。
悔亡,厥宗噬肤,往何咎。
Remorse disappears. The companion bites his way through the wrappings. If one goes to him, how could it be a mistake?
悔亡,厥宗噬肤。同伴咬穿了阻隔。往何咎:此爻主动去找对方,就没有问题。
睽孤,见豕负涂,载鬼一车,先张之弧,后说之弧,匪寇婚媾,往遇雨则吉。
Isolated through opposition, one sees one's companion as a pig covered with dirt, as a wagon full of devils. First one draws a bow against him, then one lays the bow aside. He is not a robber; he will woo at the right time. As one goes, rain falls; then good fortune comes.
睽孤,见豕负涂。把对方想成了鬼。先张之弧后说之弧:此爻证明疑心是自己造的,往遇雨则吉。