卦辭
小事吉。
In small matters, good fortune.
同中有異,宜求同存異,勿強合。
大象傳
上火下澤,睽;君子以同而異。
Above, fire; below, the lake. The noble one amid all fellowship retains his individuality.
此卦於十事
- 事業WORK
- 同中有異,宜求同存異。君子以同而異,可以合作而不必相同,強求一致反而裂得更快。
- 感情LOVE
- 有誤會與疏離。見豕負塗載鬼一車,你看到的對方可能是自己想像出來的版本。
- 財運MONEY
- 有分歧的帳目或立場。小事吉,此時只處理小的、具體的,別碰大結構。
- 健康HEALTH
- 睽有乖離之象,身心不同步。想的和身體能承受的不一致,是這裡的主題。
- 學業STUDY
- 方法與你不合。喪馬勿逐自復,不用硬追,換個角度它自己會回來。
- 考試EXAM
- 考題與你預期的方向不同。睽卦同而異:出題者的思路與你的準備有落差,考前多做不同年份、不同出題者的題目,拉近這段距離。
- 人際PEOPLE
- 最需要注意的類別。遇主于巷无咎,在非正式的場合把話講開,比正式會談有效。
- 抉擇CHOICE
- 小事可決,大事宜緩。分歧未消時做的大決定容易翻案。
- 出行TRAVEL
- 可行但易生變數。往遇雨則吉,中途的阻礙反而是轉機。
- 尋失物LOST
- 記憶與實際不符。你以為放在甲處,其實在乙處;別堅持自己的印象。
六爻爻辭
悔亡,喪馬勿逐,自復。見惡人,无咎。
Remorse disappears. If you lose your horse, do not run after it; it will come back of its own accord. When you see evil people, guard yourself against mistakes.
喪馬勿逐,自復。馬丟了別追,會自己回來。見惡人无咎:此爻連討厭的人也要見,避開反而生事。
遇主于巷,无咎。
One meets his lord in a narrow street. No blame.
遇主于巷,无咎。在巷子裡遇到了。此爻的智慧是:正式管道走不通時,非正式的場合反而能談。
見輿曳,其牛掣,其人天且劓,无初有終。
One sees the wagon dragged back, the oxen halted, a man's hair and nose cut off. Not a good beginning, but a good end.
見輿曳,其牛掣。車被拖住,牛被牽制,人還受了刑。此爻无初有終:開頭極壞,結局尚可。
睽孤,遇元夫,交孚,厲无咎。
Isolated through opposition, one meets a like-minded man with whom one can associate in good faith. Despite the danger, no blame.
睽孤,遇元夫。孤立中遇到同道。交孚厲无咎:此爻在危險裡建立了真正的信任。
悔亡,厥宗噬膚,往何咎。
Remorse disappears. The companion bites his way through the wrappings. If one goes to him, how could it be a mistake?
悔亡,厥宗噬膚。同伴咬穿了阻隔。往何咎:此爻主動去找對方,就沒有問題。
睽孤,見豕負塗,載鬼一車,先張之弧,後說之弧,匪寇婚媾,往遇雨則吉。
Isolated through opposition, one sees one's companion as a pig covered with dirt, as a wagon full of devils. First one draws a bow against him, then one lays the bow aside. He is not a robber; he will woo at the right time. As one goes, rain falls; then good fortune comes.
睽孤,見豕負塗。把對方想成了鬼。先張之弧後說之弧:此爻證明疑心是自己造的,往遇雨則吉。